Why Not Give Up Being You For Love

There are many people who forget themselves when they are in a relationship.
They are diluted in the other.
They completely forget what they wanted or what they liked.

They fully embrace that idea of ​​romantic love of the better half.
That there is someone for you.
That you are missing something.

And so a lot of time goes by.
In a kind of trance where you just give.
Pleased.

Always your friends, your family, your site.
Its everything.
And you?

There are many people who when they break up with a partner do not know who they are.
Because they have not bothered to flourish apart from the other.
Because they thought that loving was giving and giving.
And that was enough.

But romantic love is never enough.
Love should never be a space that you cannot find yourself in.
In which you get lost.
In which everything you have lived up to the moment you met that other person is simple fog.

What cannot be is that when you are in a relationship you do not feel yourself.
Because you sacrificed the most important thing you had: you.

Love is a place to have more desire to be you.
A place that allows you to be certain of the other to gain momentum.
In which confidence gives you wings.
In which to lose the vertigo to freedom.

Love has to improve us.
Because if it makes us worse, it’s not love.
It is something else.

What cannot be is that we call so many things love that are not.
That we settle for so little.
Let us excuse the obvious shit that they give us so many times.

What cannot be is that we let time pass, which is the only thing that does not return.
Without thinking about us for fear of what others will say.
Love is an opportunity for you to care less and less about what they will say.

To build something together off this planet.
A place where to judge is a verb that does not exist.
And from which to travel through existence until you can no longer.